Respecting Other People's Time

In the Philippines, we have this so-called āFilipino Time.ā It is when someone arrives way past the scheduled time. Fifteen, thirty, forty minutes late. Or when someone texts you āIām comingā but in reality that person is still about to take a bath. Or when they say, āGetting ready!ā but really, they have just woken up. When someone points out that āFilipino Timeā, it usually implies something funny to most Filipinos. I admit I used to laugh at it because I can totally relateāI was following that ātimeā and most of the people I know follow it too. Somehow, we find levity when someone points that out. It has a been a norm in casual occasions that when somebody says meet up at three oāclock, that usually means four oāclock, or if youāre lucky, three thirty. Whenever we have meetings, we always schedule it an hour ahead because we know that our members will arrive an hour late if we set it at the exact time we want to officially start. It is only lately when I realize...